Intro - Actually Romantic Lyrics

"Actually Romantic" is a song about realizing that someone else has kind of had a one-sided adversarial relationship with you that you didn't know about
And all of a sudden they start like, doing too much, and they start letting you know that actually you’ve been living in their head rent-free and you had no idea and it's presenting itself as them sort of resenting you or having a problem with you, but, um, taking that and you just accepting it as love and you accepting it as attention and affection and how flattering that somebody has made you such a big part of their reality when you didn't even think about this
It’s actually pretty romantic, if you if you really, really think about it.